ADHD, Autism & Neurodiversity Blog

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Noise Sensitivity in Autism: Why It Happens and How to Cope

For many autistic individuals, noise is not simply background sound; it is information the brain processes intensely, rapidly, and sometimes painfully. While everyone experiences loud or sudden noises as unpleasant, autistic people often notice sounds that others filter out automatically.

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Masking in Autism: How Hiding Your True Self Leads to Burnout

For many autistic adults masking becomes second nature. Masking refers to consciously or unconsciously camouflaging autistic traits to blend in, appear “neurotypical,” or avoid judgment. Over time, the constant effort to perform in a world not built for your neurology can lead to autistic burnout—a deep state of physical, emotional, and mental exhaustion.

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Adult Autism Diagnosis in Your 20s, 30s & 40s: What to Expect & How to Prepare

At Thriving Wellness Center, we specialize in adult autism evaluations and therapy for individuals in their 20s, 30s, and 40s across New Jersey and New York, and virtually. Whether you’re just starting to suspect you might be on the spectrum or you’re ready to begin a formal assessment, knowing what to expect can make the process less overwhelming and more empowering.

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Neurodiverse Couples: Navigating Relationships with Autism and ADHD

Relationships can be challenging under the best of circumstances. When one or both partners are neurodiverse navigating communication, emotional intimacy, and daily life can present unique challenges. At Thriving Wellness Center, we specialize in helping neurodiverse couples counseling clients in New York and New Jersey build stronger, more fulfilling relationships by fostering understanding, empathy, and practical strategies tailored to each partner’s brain.

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Understanding the Spectrum: How Autism and ADHD (AuDHD) Overlap and Differ

ASD and ADHD are two of the most commonly diagnosed neurodevelopmental conditions. While each has its own distinct diagnostic criteria, they often share overlapping features, and many individuals experience both. This co-occurring profile is sometimes referred to as AuDHD. Understanding the similarities, differences, and unique ways these conditions interact can help demystify co-occurring diagnoses.

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Therapy Options for ADHD and Anxiety

Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and anxiety often co-occur, creating challenges that can affect daily functioning, relationships, and overall well-being. Finding the right ADHD therapy and therapy for anxiety is essential for managing symptoms effectively.

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Online ADHD Tests: Pros, Cons, and Next Steps

While an ADHD test online can be a useful first step, it is important to know the difference between self-screening tools and a formal ADHD evaluation. This article reviews the pros and cons of online ADHD testing, clarifies what these tools can (and cannot) do, and offers guidance on what to do next if you suspect you may have ADHD.

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Adult Autism Testing: What to Expect

Many adults go through life without realizing they may be on the autism spectrum. Some may have struggled with social interactions, sensory sensitivities, or executive functioning challenges for years without a clear explanation. If you’ve been wondering whether an adult autism test could provide answers, this guide will help you understand what to expect, the signs that prompt testing, and how the evaluation process works.

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How to Know if You Need an Adult ADHD Test

Adult ADHD is often overlooked, leaving many adults struggling with attention, focus, and organization challenges without support. If you’ve been wondering whether you might benefit from an adult ADHD test, this guide will help you recognize the signs, understand how testing works, and know when to seek an evaluation.

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Late Diagnosis of Autism, ADHD & AuDHD in Adults: Why It Matters, How to Thrive

Receiving a diagnosis in adulthood can bring profound relief, validation, and direction. It helps explain long-standing patterns in attention, sensory sensitivity, emotional regulation, and social communication that may have been misunderstood or dismissed for years. Diagnosis opens the door to appropriate, affirming support, making it possible to navigate life with more authenticity, energy, and self-compassion.

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5 Parenting Strategies for Children with ADHD and Autism

Parenting a child with ADHD or Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) presents unique challenges but also offers meaningful opportunities for growth, connection, and understanding. Whether your child was recently diagnosed or you’re just beginning to explore neurodivergence, these strategies can help you support your child more effectively and build a calmer, more connected home.

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Therapy for Autistic Women: Finding Support That Understands You

If you're a young woman who has recently been diagnosed with Autism or suspects you may be autistic, you're not alone. More and more women are seeking autism-informed psychotherapy to better understand themselves and receive the support they’ve always needed—but didn’t know how to ask for. At Thriving Wellness Center, we specialize in therapy that affirms the unique experiences of neurodivergent women.

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“Do I Have Autism?” Understanding the Process of Getting Diagnosed as a Teen or Adult

If you’ve ever found yourself Googling phrases like “Do I have Asperger’s?” or “How do I get tested for autism as an adult?”—you’re not alone. Many teens and adults go through life feeling “different,” “too much,” or like they’re constantly masking to fit in, only to later discover that undiagnosed Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) may be the missing piece.

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Understanding Autism in Women and Girls

When it comes to women and girls, autism often remains underdiagnosed or misdiagnosed. This gap can lead to a lack of understanding, missed support opportunities, and significant challenges for those navigating life without the resources they deserve.

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